Motherhood is a journey that holds immense power—the power to shape the future, challenge the status quo, and dismantle the chains of patriarchy.

The patriarchy, with its deep-rooted norms and power imbalances, restricts the potential of all genders. It perpetuates harmful stereotypes, stifles individuality, and reinforces inequality.

Always trying to dictate the rules, it’s like a bad game of Monopoly where only a select few get to collect the money and own the best real estate. But fear not, because mommy is here to challenge the status quo. It’s time to flip the script, dismantle the patriarchy, and empower a new generation to rewrite the rules in their own way.

As mothers, we have the ability to take bold and empowering actions that promote gender equality and pave the way for a brighter, more inclusive world. So, let’s grab our superhero capes and explore some impactful steps we can take to shake up the patriarchal landscape:

  1. Parent with a Vision: We can be the driving force behind change by instilling the values of gender equality in our children. Through open and honest conversations, we can educate our little ones about the harmful effects of gender stereotypes and biases. Let’s encourage them to challenge societal norms, embrace empathy, and celebrate the diverse talents and capabilities of all individuals.
  2. Nurture Critical Thinkers: By fostering critical thinking skills, we empower our children to question the world around them. Let’s encourage them to examine the messages they receive from media, society, and peers. By teaching them to think independently and critically about gender norms and stereotypes, we equip them with the tools to challenge the status quo and advocate for equality.
  3. Language Matters: Words have the power to shape our perceptions and reinforce societal norms. As mothers, we can promote inclusivity by using language that embraces all genders. Let’s break free from gendered labels and instead use language that respects and acknowledges the diverse identities of individuals. By doing so, we create an environment where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued.
  4. Stand as Advocates: We are a force to be reckoned with when we raise our voices and advocate for gender equality. We can actively participate in activism and advocacy efforts that challenge gender-based discrimination and violence. Whether it’s joining local organizations, attending rallies, or engaging in online campaigns, our collective actions can create waves of change.
  5. Lift Each Other Up: Supporting and empowering other women and girls is an integral part of our journey. Let’s become mentors, cheerleaders, and advocates for women and girls in our communities. By creating safe spaces and nurturing environments, we enable them to thrive and embrace their full potential. Let’s also amplify their voices, celebrate their achievements, and stand united in our pursuit of equality.
  6. Self-Care as Resistance: Taking care of ourselves is an act of rebellion against the patriarchal norms that often demand our self-sacrifice. Prioritizing our well-being, setting boundaries, and seeking support when needed are essential steps in our journey. By valuing ourselves and demonstrating self-love, we become role models for our children and contribute to a society that values the holistic well-being of all its members.

“I want them to see a mother who loves them dearly, who invests in them, but who also invests in herself. It’s just as much about letting them know as young women that it is okay to put yourself a little higher on your priority list.”

Michelle Obama

Here are ten fantastic children’s books that promote gender equality and feminism for children ages 3-8:

  1. “The Paper Bag Princess” by Robert Munsch: This classic tale features Princess Elizabeth, who outsmarts a dragon and challenges traditional gender roles. It emphasizes bravery, resourcefulness, and the importance of being true to oneself.
  2. “Rosie Revere, Engineer” by Andrea Beaty: Rosie dreams of becoming a great engineer and learns that perseverance and embracing failure are essential for success. This book encourages girls to pursue their passions and highlights the value of resilience. There are other titles from the author with similar messages- Sofia Valdez, Future Prez, Ada Twist, Scientist
  3. “Not All Princesses Dress in Pink” by Jane Yolen and Heidi E. Y. Stemple: In this colorful and playful book, princesses engage in a variety of activities beyond traditional stereotypes, showing that being a princess can be diverse and empowering.
  4. “Malala’s Magic Pencil” by Malala Yousafzai: Based on the inspiring true story of Malala Yousafzai, this book introduces children to her childhood dreams and her advocacy for girls’ education. It promotes bravery, standing up for one’s rights, and making a positive impact.
  5. “The Name Jar” by Yangsook Choi: This story follows a young Korean girl who learns to appreciate her name and cultural identity in a new school. It encourages inclusivity, embracing diversity, and celebrating one’s heritage.
  6. “I Like Myself!” by Karen Beaumont: This delightful book teaches children about self-acceptance, self-love, and embracing their unique qualities. It emphasizes that it’s what’s inside that truly matters, promoting positive self-image and confidence.
  7. “Julian Is a Mermaid” by Jessica Love: Julian loves mermaids and expresses himself authentically, embracing his identity. This book encourages children to be true to themselves and celebrates individuality and acceptance.
  8. “She Persisted: 13 American Women Who Changed the World” by Chelsea Clinton: This inspiring book introduces young readers to remarkable women who have made a significant impact throughout history. It highlights the power of persistence and determination in pursuing one’s dreams.
  9. “Grace for President” by Kelly DiPucchio: Grace runs for class president and challenges gender stereotypes by showing that anyone, regardless of gender, can be a leader. It encourages children to believe in their abilities and promotes the concept of equal representation.
  10. “Sulwe” by Lupita Nyong’o: This beautifully illustrated book tells the story of a young girl named Sulwe who learns to embrace her unique beauty and discovers her own self-worth. It celebrates diversity, self-acceptance, and inner beauty.
  11. “I Dissent: Ruth Bader Ginsburg Makes Her Mark” by Debbie Levy: This biography introduces children to the inspiring life of Ruth Bader Ginsburg, a trailblazing Supreme Court Justice who fought for gender equality and women’s rights. It emphasizes the importance of speaking up and standing up for what is right.
  12. “The Story of Ruby Bridges” by Robert Coles: Based on the true story of Ruby Bridges, the first African American child to attend an all-white school in the 1960s, this book teaches children about courage, resilience, and the fight for equal rights.
  13. “Grace Goes to Washington” by Kelly DiPucchio: In this empowering tale, Grace joins her class on a trip to Washington, D.C., and discovers the importance of using her voice and taking action to make a difference. It encourages civic engagement and advocacy.

These books provide children with valuable lessons about equality, empowerment, and embracing one’s authentic self. They inspire conversations about gender equality, diversity, and the importance of everyone’s voice being heard.

Remember, dear moms, each action we take, no matter how small, has the potential to create a ripple effect that reverberates far beyond our immediate surroundings. Together, we can dismantle the patriarchal structures that hold us back and foster a better world. So, let’s embrace our power, unleash our voices, and lead the charge toward a brighter future—for ourselves, our children, and generations to come.

In solidarity,

Allie